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Grief Resources
Suggestions for assisting studentsJune 13, 2017
Dear Parent or Guardian:
It is with deep sadness that we must inform you of a recent loss to our school community. Dillon Colon passed away as a result of a car accident which occurred nearly two weeks ago. Our professional staff (psychologists, social workers, school counselors) is available to provide support to students during this difficult time. This loss may raise feelings of sadness, anger, hurt, and depression for those who knew Dillon as well as for others experiencing loss or trauma in their lives. Please take a moment to review symptoms for students in crisis, suggestions for assisting students, and a brief list of community resources available.
If you need additional assistance, please contact your child’s house team.
Sincerely,
Dr. Paul M. Fanuele
Executive Principal
Symptoms of Students in Crisis
Sleep and eating disturbances Loss of appetite
Act as if death never happened Regression in behavior
Fear of dark Withdrawal from family/friends
Aggressiveness School Avoidance
Physical Complaints Delinquent behavior
Extreme sadness and reluctance to participate in activities
Suggestions for Assisting Students
- Acknowledge and normalize their feelings. Encourage them to talk but respect their right not to.
- Provide healthy alternative ways for them to express themselves (writing in a journal, drawing, playing music, etc).
- Remind them that everyone has a right to grieve and a right to grieve in their own way.
- Help them understand that people show their emotions differently.
- Try to maintain a normal routine.
- Listen and observe. Share your concerns with appropriate support personnel
- Spend family time together
- Emphasize people’s resiliency. Help identify ways they have coped in the past.
- Help your child get plenty of sleep, eat regular meals and exercise
- Remain calm, reassuring
- Openly express your affection to your child
- Do not neglect your own needs.
- Talk to other adults, support personnel, or someone from place of worship.
Community Mental Health Resources
Astor Counseling Center (845) 471-6004
Bereaved Family Support (845) 462-2825
Bridges Counseling Center (845) 897-4700
Catholic Charities (845) 452-1400
Dutchess County Helpline (24 hr)/ Stabilization Center (845) 485-9700
Jewish Family Services (845) 471-9817
Mid Hudson Regional Hospital (Emergency) (845) 431-8892
Dutchess County Helpline (845) 485-9700
Riverview Center for Psychiatric Care (845) 471-1807
Spectrum Behavioral Health (845) 485-3500
United Way of Dutchess County (845) 471-1900